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June 25, 2013Posted by on
I am in the middle of a great series at church. What makes my pastor an awesome pastor is how he can apply the words of the bible to everyday life. The series is called Becoming…What got you here won’t get you there. It makes perfect sense if you are in a rut. The main point or tag line is “If you want to go somewhere you have never been before you must become someone you have never been before”. I write this because he is describing me of about a year ago. I was trying to be fit and eat right but, nothing I was doing was working. I needed to change who I was. For instance, I don’t like sitting at my desk. So, for my lunch I would go and walk on a treadmill. I “worked out” mostly everyday but, nothing was happening. I needed to work out to make myself better, not just because I hate sitting. So, my intensity increased, my body changed, and I became addicted to working out and now have added morning workouts (I made time…workouts to me are more important than sleeping in).
I have always said the only way to have time is to make time. On my way out of church we were discussing a book the pastor referenced. It is about habits and how you form them. Someone said that they had the book and that I could borrow it. I said I didn’t have time to read it and I am happy with my habits right now. I thought about what I said. It’s not that I don’t have time. It is the other things I do with my time I feel are more important than reading that book. Right now I am happy with my family, my life, and my habits. So, this book, although probably very interesting, held low priority in my time budget. The owner of the book could not believe I didn’t have time. I went thru my day with her and asked her what I should give up to spend time reading. Workouts? Work? Weekly/Daily yardwork? Kids sport camps? Time with my wife and kids? Daily New Testament reading? My fun read (I am reading Happy, Happy Happy…a Duck Dynasty book)? Eating? Or Sleeping? I am sure she didn’t get anything I was saying but, reading the habit book at this part of my life just wasn’t a priority.
I kind of branched off the path about the church series Becoming. I used habits about a year ago to become a fitter person that I wanted to be. The pastor also mentioned to use tools to help you become someone you have never been before. Coaches were the tool he said to use. WOW…he really was talking about me. Not only did I change my habits but, I also have great Fit Coaches that helped me become a fitter person.
I just thought I would share this series at church that I have already lived but had no idea I was living.
I do like this quote:
“If you want to go somewhere you have never been before you must become someone you have never been before”
May 20, 2013Posted by on
I have been slacking but, I really have not had much to say. Yes, I have had 2 workout of the week that I didn’t post so, here they are:
- 4 rounds for time: My time was 10:03.7.
- Push-ups x 10
- Squats x 20
- Alt Leg Raises x 30
- Jumping Jacks x 40
- Plank Holds x 50 seconds
- 21-15-9 reps for time: My time was 1:30.8.
- Jump squats
- Push ups
I wrote about my wife and Pinterest in this post, Social or Not So Much. Well she is not quite addicted but, over the weekend she found this on Pinterest, The Military Diet and wants to try it. It pretty much is 3 days of strict dieting and then 4 days of eating anything within reason. Has anyone tried it? It claims you can lose 10 pounds a week. Normally, I would try it with her because it is always easier to stay on a diet when your significant other is doing it with you. Ten pounds in a week and you are supposed to eat hotdogs and vanilla ice cream sounds a little too good to be true. She is all in and I will support her and if she does lose 10 pounds, I will join her eating hotdogs and all. For now, I will just keep eating my salads, veges, fruit, eggs, chicken, fish, and protein lattes.
January 7, 2013Posted by on
I was thinking nothing really happened last year. Then I thought I did start this blog. I went back through and realized that I did do something last year. I started this blog in February (wow almost a year). This was just a way to keep track of my attempt to lose weight for a competition at work. Since it was a weight loss blog I had to swallow my pride and post some half naked secret photos of myself. The first ones are scary but, I stuck with it and faithfully posted pictures about every week or so.
I learned that eating clean and healthy actually made me feel better. Towards the end of the year I also learned that I really love food and sometimes bad food outweighed the way good food made me feel. I learned my normal day to day weight isn’t 130 pounds where I finished nor is it 170 pounds where I started. It is somewhere in-between. I am at 150 pounds right now. I am not really happy about it but, I am not going to kill myself for it either.
I set some goals to run some races. I ran 3 races last year with my best one a 10 K that I finished in 45:40. I ran 2 other shorter runs with my wife and that was fun as well but, not as competitive.
I also, started lifting weights more and actually have fallen in love with Kettlebell Training. I started this in December and I have just started a new session today.
Now going into 2013, I will continue with my Kettlebells. Being in my early 40’s, I plan on staying a little stricter on my food. If I did in my 20’s what I do now in my 40’s, I may have been cute with a great body. Now I just have to try harder. A goal that I have started is to read my Bible every day. I have tried this before but, I am a slow reader and sometimes I just don’t understand the language. So, I am doing our church’s One-Year New Testament Challenge in 2013. It should be shorter reading on a daily basis and I can look up stuff that I don’t understand. I will do this one. I am still running every day and plan to run a few more races and may even try to do one of those cross training, mudder, ultimate warrior type of a race.
I also plan to update something on here once a week or so. Hopefully something fun and exciting things will happen for me to write about.
Cheers to a great year in 2013.
November 29, 2012Posted by on
I have not updated this blog in a while. I don’t really have an excuse other than I am just lazy.
Last week I finished my third race. It was a little over 4.5 miles and I ran it completely with my wife (brownie points). I was a pretty easy run with very little elevation changes but it was packed with runners. There were over 15,000 people that ran. Since it was such good weather in Indiana on Thanksgiving, everyone that registered actually showed up. Although I was all set to wear my long tights, it was warm enough to wear shorts. Whew, saved from embarrassment again.
I am totally into my kettlebell classes. I think I am getting stronger and thicker but, I also have added some pounds. I have not taken any measurements and I am not real too happy with what I see in the mirror. I am going to stick with my extra insulation for the winter and be ok with it. I really haven’t changed the way I eat but, I cheat a lot more than I should. I really meant to post my progress pictures and measurements during my Kettlebell Bootcamp. I have about a month to go and I promise I will post some of my insulated self-pictures at the end. And with that I will leave you with breaking news, we have all been doing it wrong…
October 9, 2012Posted by on
Saturday evening I had the opportunity to run with my wife. YIPPEE! We had a busy cold day of the kids’ soccer and football games and then off to a local winery to run 5 miles. Busy, busy. The winery was packed with runners, walkers and fans. Over 2000 people finished either the 5 mile run or the 5K run/walk. I am really bad at picture taking. I am at a very picturesque winery and I take three pictures. Here we are before the race.
I told my wife that we would run together but, I guess I lied. It is almost just as hard to slow my normal pace down as it is to speed up. I am in no means a speedy runner but, it’s just something about races that gets my adrenaline going. There were some decent size hills that caught my wife off guard. They don’t seem to bug me as much and I felt really good running. I was one of those guys that sped up and slowed down. I know some of you know what I mean. I would start running at my own pace and then start feeling guilty about leaving my wife. So, I would go to the side and try to slow down while looking backwards to find her. I repeated this a few times. I ended up passing the same people maybe 4 times. At about the 3 mile mark I told her I would meet her at the finish line. It felt fun passing people but, it was also consuming tons of energy weaving in and out of people because at that time we were also meeting up with the 5K walkers. I went from high 8 minute pace to a 7 minute pace. I finished the run in 42 minutes and my wife finished at about 46 minutes. In the end we were treated with a glass of wine. We are not wine drinkers but the wine tasted good enough that we bought two bottles.
Hopefully, my wife will still run with me again because we have a planned run at the end of November. It’s supposed to be flatter and I will try my best to steady my adrenaline.
September 24, 2012Posted by on
For the handful of helpful followers I have, you have and will kind of know more about me that you probably want to. No secrets left behind but, we are all family (in a weird way) so I hope it doesn’t bother you too much. My main goal for eating healthy and exercising is not really to extend my days here on this earth but, to look good naked. I know selfish, right? I just want be able to look good when the family heads to the beach or maybe when my wife looks at me when I get in or out of the shower (I don’t think she even looks now). I really have no clue what that has to do with this post. I guess I just wanted to share.
I kind of love this time of year. Football is in full swing from high school, to college, and to NFL. The thing I do not like is the colder weather. I have taken pride for the past few months starting in March I have been getting up at 4:00 am to run. Yes it was 40 degrees when I started then but, I had been used to the colder winter weather. Now it is 40 degrees but, I have been used to the warmer summer weather. Going from hot to cold makes the cold feel colder and lately my bed feels warmer at 4:00. My alarm goes off and I have the outdoor temperature flashing on my ceiling. I am kind of weird about time and weather. I like having clocks everywhere and I am always checking on the weather. Bad for me! When 37 degrees is flashing it’s really hard for me to get up and go running. I even have my clothes laid out. Don’t laugh…I have some Capri type thermal pants. Yes they are women’s. I am short and guys’ thermals or tights are baggy in the crotch and don’t fit right. Those are worn under a pair of jogging pants. Then I put on a couple of layers for my top. I have a hat and gloves right there in the pile. I just can’t wake my lazy butt up. It has been over a week since I have run. I guess I am waiting for my Indian Summer. I guess that is my excuse but, next week is when I start my Kettlebell Bootcamp. My baseline picture and measurements later this week may be a bit comical. No more excuses. I forgot to mention staying up too late watching football and tailgating all day on Sundays. My boys went to the Colts game with me yesterday.
Time to start trying to help myself look good naked (I may need a mask and another body…it is Halloween time).
September 19, 2012Posted by on
I am like most people, busy. When you have a family with kids and sports and work and school and, well you get the picture, it’s hard finding time to exercise. For me the only way to have time for exercise is to make time. My made time has been at 4:00 in the morning before everyone including the sun wake up. Also, I eat lunch while working at my desk, so I can spend my lunch hour in our exercise room at work. That is my made time. I am getting ready to start a new routine that starts at 5:15 am and not 4:00 am.
My wife accepted an invitation from her friend to attend a Kettlebell Bootcamp open gym on a Saturday morning. She really liked it but,cannot make the times through the week so she pushed me to do it. My wife is great. Now I get to work out in the mornings while she gets the kids ready for school and herself ready for work (I get the better end of the stick here). My work schedule is a little more flexible. I will just have to stay a little longer in the evenings.
The schedule for Kettlebell Bootcamp is Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from 5:15 to 6:00 am. Of course, I am excited and nervous. I have been needing an extra kick in the butt to take me to the next level. I am not sure what level I am looking for but, I just seem to be doing the same thing day after day. I run 4-7 miles every morning and then do arms, back, shoulders, chest, or legs workout during lunch. I am staying kind of healthy but, I am getting bored too.
So, my plan for October 1st to December 29th is to continue to eat like I am which is relatively “healthy” during the week but, go to a restaurant on the weekends without feeling guilty. My hope is that these high intensity yet short exercises will help me add muscle, define some abs, and lose some fat (kind of sounds like what everyone wants, huh?). I may need to up my calories. I am guessing the first few weeks of KB bootcamp will make me sore but, I am still going to try to do something in the exercise room at work. For me this isn’t about losing weight, which is kind of why I started my blog, I mean look at the blog name. I plan to post a picture (dead sexy) along with some measurements about every two weeks. I think I will measure weight, right arm, left arm, right leg, left leg, waist and chest. Anything else I should measure? If I could I would do a real body fat percentage. I have a read out on my scale but I am not sold on it.
I think this is about it. I will post my first measurements sometime next week before I start my bootcamp.
August 21, 2012Posted by on
OK. After a few posts dealing with bras and boobs, hopefully I am back to normal (but I have never been normal). I posted about my first 10K race earlier. I am excited about that and also a little nervous. What do I wear? Funny, I am nervous about what to wear to a race. As some know, I run early in the morning before, the sun wakes up. So, my clothes do not really matter. No one can see me and I wanted feel more like a runner so, I have been donning spandex or compression shorts. I would never wear these in public. With these on there is no way of hiding what I don’t have if you get the visual. On top of this, it might be a little chilly at the start of the race (you know things happen in the cold) another negative. However, I have kind of grown to like the support these shorts offer. So, I guess I am asking for some help. Do guys wear spandex shorts at races? Should I swallow what little (hehe) pride I have and wear them because they are comfy and I have been training in them? Should I not look the part as a runner and put basketball shorts over the compression shorts?
Now onto some more exciting news. One of my early, early goals was to run some races. Well it has taken me nine months to get one scheduled. I want to run some races with other people. Sometimes running solo is boring. Not so much the running part but the driving to and from the races and talking about the interesting stuff that happened during the race. For instance when I ran my Half Marathon, I didn’t have anyone to share my experience of running passed the lines of people at the port-o-potties and into the woods to relieve myself. You would have been amazed at everyone I met while in the woods. I guess many of us, men and women, didn’t want to wait in line. I digress, sorry. Anyway, my wife says to me are you going to run the Wine at the Line race with me. Unknown to me she was invited by some of her girlfriends. I told her that I wanted to but I thought it was just the girls. She had told them that I wanted to run that race and they open the invite to me. Supposedly, I am to be their driver. I am in. My plan run fast, drink fast before they get back and then watch them get drink on crushed fermented grapes. Another friend of hers wants us to do the Drumstick Dash on Thanksgiving. No runs for half of the year and now three over the next three months. I am excited. Now the only drawback to this is that we need to find someone to watch our kids. As long as we find a babysitter, I will not have to run solo. I get to run with my wife. See I told you this is exciting.
Sorry for the long winded post with out pictures(BOO!). And please help me out with any suggestions on the shorts thing I mentioned way above.
August 1, 2012Posted by on
Last night my wife and I were feeling depressed because the kids have to go back to school next week. Where did the time go this summer? On a whim, we booked a hotel and planned a last minute vacation. This is so not us. We usually sit and plan and shop and talk ourselves out of things like this. This weekend we are going to Kings Island for 2 days. Kings Island is an amusement park about 130 miles from our house. Which also happens to be the number of miles I ran in July (132 miles). Do you think they would want to run or take the van?
I have had 2 runs while wearing my compression shorts. I guess I was kind of hoping this look would give me the look of a runner. I am not sure if I would pass for a runner or a bicyclist. My intentions were to wear the shorts under other shorts. But as someone pointed out to me, I run in the dark so who would see the skin tight shorts anyway. So, one less article of clothing I have to wash. Also, it kind of gives me that sexy/naughty feeling. Not that I look all that sexy in them it’s just something I would not be caught wearing in public (doesn’t leave much to the imagination…hehe).
Last night, I was out getting some peppers and tomatoes, imagine that. My oldest son came out to swing for a bit so, I had him take a picture of me. I am short 5’6” but, look how much taller a couple of tomato plants are compared to me. I said in a post they were 7 feet but, they might be pushing 8 feet. They even have tomatoes growing at height of my head. Very amazing!
July 30, 2012Posted by on
I have been slacking on my posts. Nothing exciting is happening. So, I will try to make this a quickie. My tomato plants are growing like crazy. I will try to get a picture of them. Some are over 7 feet tall. A storm usually knocks my tall ones down but, we haven’t had any storms or rain for that matter. I have been busy making salsa from all of my tomatoes and peppers. I think I average about a gallon every 4 days. On Saturday, I went on a run with my wife. I am a sap but, it was really awesome to run with her. We actually planned to run a 10K coming up. My plans never plan out. Our kids’ 1st soccer and football games are on the same day. We hope to be able to run some together. She doesn’t want to slow me down but, I don’t mind. I like running with her. It’s a leisure run with a lopsided conversation…I am the only one talking. She probably hates it. I did finally get my compression shorts (spandex shorts, whatever they call them now). I haven’t tried them on a run but they are comfy. So comfy, I bought a few more to wear as underwear. I have a pair on now. I can feel it wicking away the moisture and keeping me dry as I type. Hehe…I know too much info.